This
series of posts results includes excerpts from information shared
with a journalist in August of 2015 who had questions about the
Quiverfull
Movement as it related to the Duggar
Family.
Find
the Index of all
posts HERE.
Find
the previous post HERE.
Question:
How
are women controlled by the inherent patriarchy of QF?
As is
the case in high demand ideological groups, both leadership and
members convey control subtly through informal, social means. In
many ways, people become “self-programmed.” All groups of people
develop their own natural, social rules which are informal which
govern the way that people behave, and as social creatures, we are
very sensitive to them. In any such gathering, this unwritten code
has been called the “hidden
curriculum,” and it serves a useful purpose within a healthy
social group. However, in cultic groups, these social pressures work
against the unsuspecting member in profound ways and usually differ
significantly from their formally stated goals and mission.
The true
goals of a high demand group — the preservation of the
infallibility of the group leader, his/her ultimate benefit, and the
group’s unquestionable doctrine — are never discussed openly in
such a direct manner, though all social interaction and life within
the group support them. This creates a great deal of cognitive
dissonance for the member which is generally vague enough to cause
them to ignore the inconsistencies that give way to their sense of
confusion. Most optimistic people will dismiss the disparagements
between the hidden curriculum and their good beliefs about the group
because of confirmation bias — their wishful thinking and faith in
the benefits of membership. Over time, the member learns to ignore
the nagging sense that “something is wrong” with the group and
will use the sensation as a cause to question themselves. As
Cialdini describes in the book,
Influence:
The Psychology of Persuasion, the inherent human traits such
as our tendency to comply with those in authority or those we like,
the pressure to be consistent and committed to a cause, social proof,
and the desire to reciprocate care and benefits also help reinforce
the hidden demands required of the member to remain part of the life
of a group.
~
Cynthia Kunsman
The
view of Quiverfull from my vantage
August
2015